I want to share some things that I have found to bring immediate results in regards to calibrating your mind and helping to bring the wide world of the Manosphere down to bite size bites. As the saying goes, “The best way to eat a dinosaur is one bite at a time” depending on how long you’ve chosen the path of weakness you may have a huge mound on your plate or just a few bites, either way the only way to finish your task it to take it a bite at a time.
The goal is to improve you, set the example you want your family to follow, and to attain the standard of relationship you have always wanted.
ACTIONs TO TAKE NOW
Action #1 Face Your Goals – Write down Three Goals, then under each write down two ways you are working to achieve those goals. They can be short or long term, just write them down and recognize that you need to take specific actions to accomplish them.
Action #2 Training vs Exercise – Moving for the sake of movement, lifting without a program, doing things just to do them and expecting progress towards your goal is inefficient and ineffective. Even if you’re a complete beginner, you can find programs that will allow you to track progression and know exactly what is required of you for that day. I never go into the gym wondering, “What will I do today?” I always have a plan of attack and that plan comes from a thought out program designed to get me to a certain goal in a certain amount of time.
Action #3 Women aren’t Men – Stop expecting your wife to think and act like a man. She does not love you the way you love her, she does not have the mental capacity to think as deeply as you do when it comes to virtue, honor, and commitment, she does not want to know how hard you worked at something. She just wants to smile and enjoy the ride, let her. Stop holding your wife to a masculine standard. Have you forgotten that she is a woman?? Take this action, look at her and remind yourself that all of the feminine parts that sometimes annoy you are exactly why you married her!!
Action #4 Do not let ‘Worry’ impede progress – You want to dance but you’re worried you’ll look dumb? Are you worried that you don’t belong doing Olympic lifts? Are you worried you’ve missed your opportunity to take charge of this life and become the Man you were meant to be?
We do not have enough breathes in this life and even fewer moments where we can actually Live. Take charge, own your shit, and do YOUR thing without the fear of others. Yesterday I started dancing with my daughter in the middle of Target because she heard a song she liked. Who gives a shit if people watch, If you’re confident in yourself, you’ll convince others that whatever it is you’re doing is ok
Action 5 Buy a book from the side bar – Right now, buy a book from either TRPs or MRPs sidebar. You keep meaning to, just do it. Reading and self-education is an immensely important part of self-improvement. So stop kicking the can, but it, read it.
I hope this helps you on your journey.
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