Action, NOT vows is what your marriage needs.


I had a discussion with a user on Reddit’s Married Red Pill forum where he said, “When she pledges till death do us part in sickness and in health for richer or poorer in front of her’s and your parents and grandparents who all fulfilled that vow to the end, it is reasonable to expect it to be true.

This stuck with me as it is contradictory to everything that has been put out in the Manosphere yet guys still aren’t getting it. I subscribed to TRP before it had 1k subscribers and have been on MRP from the beginning. What I’ve learned is that if one guy is saying something, another 100 are thinking it.

This post is a quick message to those who feel the same as that Reddit user, it’s also a quick reminder to those who may have taken their foot off the gas thinking that they are at a point of ‘relaxation’ (negative).

When your woman vowed to be your wife, she was saying that in that moment. As masculine men who understand female nature, we should know that this is bullshit.

It’s a crap vow for several reasons to include:

  • She got married so as to secure a man who she thought could provide, protect, and please her. As a Man you own this shit, I am my wife’s Shield and Spear and you should be the same for your lady.
  • She does mean what she says, at that point in time.
  • Don’t follow their words, follow their actions.
  • She will perform at the level you maintain. You get complacent she gets fat. You get weak, she gets bored. You fail to remain a masculine man, she becomes a bitch to you and is looking for chad to spice her life up on the side.

The take away from this is that everything is on you to remain the top dog. The day you get married and become a Family Alpha is the last point that you can have a ‘zero’ day. Her vows don’t mean shit. I would argue that women are utterly incapable of understanding the significance of a vow. As men we feel things like vows, honor, and commitment on a much deeper level; which is exactly why we are the more romantic of the sexes.

So for any of the other lurkers who believe that your woman’s vow to you means anything, you need to unfuck your mind and get back to reality before you suffer an entirely preventable situation.

View her for what she is, a beautiful, feminine woman. She is a solipsistic, hypergamous, hamster driven woman and you should fucking Love that. The guys who have an issue with this are the ones who are fucked up; out of shape, unmotivated, and unwilling to learn or try to learn more about female nature and the female imperative we are all up against.

Your wife is committed to you so long as you are a man worth committing to. You will find it much more difficult to choose the weak path when you accept that your wife will not always be there. You have to work to keep her eyes on you. She is going to measure other men to the bar you set, so make sure it’s a high fucking standard and you have to work to keep that fire of tingles alive.

Those vows are just words, you need to take action and make the marriage you want happen.

Acta, Non Verba.
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