Is it starting to make sense?

So you’ve decided to swallow ‘The Red Pill’ and begin reading the Manly blogs (like this one,  The Rational Male, and Illimitable Men) as well as the subreddits (Married Red Pill & The Red Pill) which are all focused on sexual strategy and embracing (reclaiming) masculinity. You’re beginning to understand that this is who you were literally born to be, a Masculine Man in this world and now it’s time to start acting the part.

Eventualy you begin to apply the readings and all of the sudden your wife thinks you’re a fucking asshole. She says you’re being cocky, pushy, and different. While dealing with her external barrage of shit tests you are internally trying to ‘find the path‘ and figure out who it is you are in this new reality.

When the veil of the female imperative is lifted it is up to you to find your path.

When the veil of the female imperative is lifted it is up to you to find your path.

This is a critical point in your journey as it is the time where you will decide that you are either doing this for her, or you’re doing it for you. If you are improving and reclaiming your position as the masculine powerhouse and leader of your clan for your wife then you will revert back to your old ways, avoiding the confrontations that Red Pill behavior is bringing to your life…

But, if you stay the course and say, ‘fuck that, I’m doing this for me and if she wants to fight, then so be it…..but I am no longer repressing who I am’  than with or without her you are going to push forward and create the best ‘you‘ that there can be – improvement to the grave.

If you choose the second option, known as the more difficult of the two paths, then your life will never be the same. From this point on, you are grinding every single day.  You’ll have to find comfort in the discomfort and embrace the harshness of reality over the safety of the lie.

Eventually, on some random day, most likely after your wife throws a shit test at you and you just ignored it she is going to give you an amazing, unsolicited blowjob or fuck that reminds you of when you first began dating.

This is another critical point in your journey. This is when the lightbulb really goes off and you think, ‘Holy fucking fuck, The Red Pill really does work.’

Ding! It DOES work.

Ding! It DOES work.

At this point you will either become content and take your foot off the gas thinking, ‘I made it’ or you’ll use this progress as fuel to continue on. If you again choose the masculine path to continue pushing forward, then you’ll have a lot more bulbs going off.

All of it works and ALL of it applies to YOU

All of it works and ALL of it applies to YOU

This is when you realize that all of the fights about you being an asshole were not your wife saying that she didn’t want the asshole but rather she was content with you as her provider and the power shift was causing discomfort in her comfortable world. In that world she set the rules and was the captain of your ship. In that world she was in charge of the sex and standard of the marriage. In that world, she resented you…

Your wife always wanted you to be her captain and to lead her. She fucking wants the tingles and to be like a leaking faucet around you. She wants to know other women want you and to see other men want to be like you. But, she could never tell you that, because she doesn’t know she wants these things. Just like she can’t tell you she likes the asshole, she can’t tell you she wants to simply be a feminine wife to her masculine husband.

All these bulbs start going off in your mind and it just becomes easier and easier to pass the shit tests, push yourself to improve, and maintain a higher standard for your marriage.

As men we are the romantics, not the women (fuck society on their promotion of that aspect of masculinity). We feel deeply and think deeply, it’s who we are. Once all of the Red Pill truths align in your mind, do not become resentful at the fact that you’ve lost years of your life believing the lie. That is weaksauce as fuck and unmanly. Just accept that here you are, now, armed with the needed information. Whether you’ve been brainwashed by our feminine society for a year, decade, or possibly longer it makes no difference. You have now; the choices you make in the present will determine where your ship is heading.

Don't Get Lost in your Head

Don’t Get Lost in your Head

Let the actions of your wife be your buoys. Keep leading your clan and steering your ship as far as you want to go and in the direction you want to go. You are now the captain and it’s your responsibility to achieve everything in this life that you want. Your wife and kids are along for the ride, ensure they enjoy it and make sure you take time to smile at it all as well.
I write for free, but if you feel the need to compensate for the benefit this article may have provided to you in your life – I’d be most humbled and appreciative.



2 thoughts on “Is it starting to make sense?

  1. The first half of this post sounds just like where I’m at, but I have a question: How long should I expect my wife to push back against my taking the reigns? Zero unsolicited blowjobs for this guy. I should be clear, I’m in this shit for me and she knows it, but I think she resents me for it. Where am I crossing my signals? Thanks


    • It depends on you and how you go about the reclamation of manhood.

      You can’t just take the reins and expect her to follow, it needs to be gradual and you need to earn the benefits that come with being the Captain.


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