Don’t forget to enjoy the ride

We have touched on the topic of having fun and the importance of remaining your own Man time and again, yet sometimes I feel the message is lost. So it is important that as writers, bloggers, vloggers, and Reddit posters that we refresh the message and remind guys that we need to enjoy the journey as much as we feel we’ll enjoy the destination. Day in and day out to the gym, writing millions of words, observing your wife, improving your standard and watching those around you raise their own…all of this is fucking awesome. I wrote about Reasons to be Thankful last Thanksgiving and I am reminding you now, find comfort in the discomfort of living life as a masculine male in a weaksauce society that has stacked the cards against you.

Embrace the challenge that is marriage in today’s day and age. White Knights and Feminazis want to push the female imperative and foster open hypergamy, good let them. Continue to raise your own standard and show them that no matter their efforts, they cannot overcome your masculine nature and make yourself such a high value male that your wife knows if she fucks up, she loses ‘the prize’ which is you. 
On this blog as well as the Red Pill subreddits there are a lot of newly unplugged men who are asking for for advice and guidance concerning their marriage.  There is quite a bit of doom, gloom, resentment, and frustration in the beginning; so much so that it has been given the title of ‘The Anger Phase‘. This is your reminder that while your perceived reality crumbles and you recognize the world for what it truly is, you should still be having the time of your life.

Whether you’re a newly unplugged dude or a seasoned Vet who has had a solid ‘Red Pill’ marriage for years, don’t become complacent or forget how fucking awesome it is to be a man in a sea of feminized bitches.

Yes, it is depressing when you see other guys wasting the precious time we have on this planet making a woman their entire purpose in life. But, they will either unplug when they are ready or they will die thinking that being Mr. Nice Guy is a proper and honorable path.

For your own sanity, make the time to appreciate that you have broken the mold society has been forcing you into and that you are going to raise the standard of the modern day male. It is a more difficult life, but you need to keep in mind, there is no shortcut to any place worth going.

With all of that said, enjoy the ride.

  • Enjoy the shit tests as they are entertaining and truly amusing when you picture the hamster spinning its wheel.
  • Enjoy the pain from lifting the iron. The discomfort from weightlifting provides a humbling yet spiritual experience. Knowing the limits of your body, then training to raise those limits is some fucking powerful shit. I bought a bench, barbell, squat stand, and bumper plates. I can now lift in my garage whenever I want so there is NO excuse for missed workout.
  • Laugh at yourself, laugh at your wife, laugh at your kids, and laugh at the absurdity of what goes on around you. People can’t fathom that I don’t let my kids watch TV or snack whenever and that I will run around outside with them in the rain or do mud crawls or hop around on their scooters, I don’t give a fuck I keep doing me and my kids are better off because of it. It is sad, but fathers have become so sedentary and lethargic that they can’t keep up with their kids. Not me and hopefully not you, enjoy fucking around with them and reminding them that their old man can hang. I’d much rather whoop my son’s ass at connect four then have us all plugged into the TV watching fucking Hey Jessie.
  • Make fun of your wife, ruffle her feathers. Don’t be a dickhead, but bring the spark of humor into your relationship. A while ago I replaced my wife’s incense with a sparkler when she wasn’t looking. It looked like the fourth of July for a few minutes, it was fucking awesome. Stupid shit like that, stop taking yourself so serious. She is just a girl you like on the playground, pull her hair, and tease her.

Gentlemen, we have an opportunity to live life as men and keep our marriage until we are too old to remember we are even married (and at that point who cares)? Enjoy it while it lasts, have fun, and strive to reach a point of optimal existence, full immersion in each moment.

Enjoy each and every moment you are on this earth as life is nothing more than a bunch of experiences. Stay strong, make it count, fucking smile.

Hunter
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8 thoughts on “Don’t forget to enjoy the ride

  1. Pingback: Don’t forget to enjoy the ride | Red Pill Nation

  2. “Laugh at yourself, laugh at your wife, laugh at your kids, and laugh at the absurdity of what goes on around you. ”
    This is they key, more than anything else you say in the article

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  3. “Make fun of your wife, ruffle her feathers. Don’t be a dickhead, but bring the spark of humor into your relationship. A while ago I replaced my wife’s incense with a sparkler when she wasn’t looking. It looked like the fourth of July for a few minutes, it was fucking awesome. Stupid shit like that, stop taking yourself so serious. She is just a girl you like on the playground, pull her hair, and tease her.”

    Ruthless, but true, what works, works

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  4. I enjoyed reading the bullet points at the end. Men need to understand that shit-tests are provocations made to test their mettle. Here is a shit-test example + answer: “Hey Ali what’s up” (Because I have grown a beard) Answer: ALLAHU AKBAR AMK. You counter every shit-test with this method: agree+amplify. In the example, I gave you, I agreed to his statement with Allahu akbar(that I am a Turk) and amplified it into absurdity with the Allahu akbar. They all have respect for me and they all still shit-test me. It would be sad if they stopped because that would mean that they think that I am a weak sensitive man which they don’t want to hurt. I don’t give a shit what other people think of me. But I really do not like the special treatment. When you win every shit-test women will be highly attracted to you and men will respect you (with continued shit-tests instead of sensitive faggot talk). I was a sensitive man before I learned what shit-tests are. I saw them as a challenge at first. Now I love them because It is an invitation to call them faggots and smile. You can easily counter it with women. “Hey, Phil that beard looks stupid” “My beard is a college dropout” look in their eyes, smile, and agree+amplify. Big smile guaranteed + vagina tingles. My conclusion is that shit-tests are a chance to show people that you are a masculine sexual being. And you win them easily when you agree+amplify their provocations.

    Hope that helped!
    Also, there is no better place to get RedPill knowledge about Marriage than here.
    Married RedPill Man with children. Get your daily dose of Redpill Marriage!

    Best Regards
    Philip Braselmann

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  5. I enjoyed reading the bullet points at the end. Men need to understand that shit-tests are provocations made to test their mettle. Here is a shit-test example + answer: “Hey Ali what’s up” (Because I have grown a beard) Answer: ALLAHU AKBAR AMK. You counter every shit-test with this method: agree+amplify. In the example, I gave you, I agreed to his statement with Allahu akbar(that I am a Turk) and amplified it into absurdity with the Allahu akbar. They all have respect for me and they all still shit-test me. It would be sad if they stopped because that would mean that they think that I am a weak sensitive man which they don’t want to hurt. I don’t give a shit what other people think of me. But I really do not like the special treatment. When you win every shit-test women will be highly attracted to you and men will respect you (with continued shit-tests instead of sensitive faggot talk). I was a sensitive man before I learned what shit-tests are. I saw them as a challenge at first. Now I love them because It is an invitation to call them faggots and smile. You can easily counter it with women. “Hey, Phil that beard looks stupid” “My beard is a college dropout” look in their eyes, smile, and agree+amplify. Big smile guaranteed + vagina tingles. My conclusion is that shit-tests are a chance to show people that you are a masculine sexual being. And you win them easily when you agree+amplify their provocations.

    Hope that helped!
    Also, there is no better place to get RedPill knowledge about Marriage than here.
    Married RedPill Man with children. Get your daily dose of Redpill Marriage!

    Best Regards
    Philip Braselmann

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