Day #31: The Only Hope

Day #1Day #2Day #3Day #4Day #5Day #6Day #7(Week One Done)

Day #8Day #9Day #10Day #11Day #12Day #13Day #14(Week Two Done)

Day #16Day #17Day #18, Day #19, Day #20, Day #21(Week Three Done)

Day #22Day #23, Day #24, Day #25, Day #26, Day #27Day #28(Week Four Done)

Day #29, Day #30

Yesterday’s Recap: Day #30 forced you to reflect on the fact that nobody is coming to save you; you’re walking this path alone.

You are the problem to everything in your life, you are also the solution.

Yesterday forced you to evaluate the people in your life and to make the not so pleasant decision of removing the anchors.

Friends, family, co-workers it makes no difference what their title is, if they are holding you back vs propelling you forward, they need to be made aware and they’ll either unfuck themselves or they’ll end up cut from your life.

Masculine men have no time to cater to the weak.

There is a standard for a reason, people need to be aware that if they don’t meet it, they aren’t worthy of your time and attention.

Final Reminder: The rules of Men of March:

  1. You will not masturbate, edge, or touch your dick for pleasure during the entire month. You can have sex, but not with yourself.
  2. You will not watch porn, sexy gifs, look at provocative photos or anything of the sort as this will lead to you breaking rule one.
  3. You will do 100 push-ups every day. Don’t give the ‘time’ excuse, or any excuse as I don’t give a fuck, just do them. Break it up however you have to, but before you sleep at night, 100 must be done; chest day or not.
  4. You must start reading a book. Even if it’s just a few pages a day at first you must be reading a book. I will be reading New World Ronin by Victor Pride this month. You don’t have to finish the book in the month, just actively read a few pages every day to build the habit. With that said, my goal is to finish the book this month.
  5. You have to start giving genuine answers to people. If someone asks if you’re busy, don’t say “No” when you are. You have to stop avoiding conflict at the expense of your true self. If your wife asks a question, give an answer, “I don’t know/care” inot an answer a leader gives to his crew. Start knowing, start caring, and start telling the world your true opinion.
  6. If you have a vice, remove it. You have to be honest with yourself; if you’re overweight and drinking to numb or are smoking pot and being unproductive, that shit has to go. This isn’t a ‘dry’ challenge, if alcohol or pot isn’t a problem good to go. If it’s more than that, leave it be for the month.
  7. Every day there will be a challenge, you must complete it.

You’re a Man of March. You’ve burned your ship on the shore, there’s no going back.

Day #31: The Only Hope


From this moment on nothing I do on this blog will ever give me the same sense of purpose & satisfaction that I felt from running this campaign.

Men of March will be the legacy I leave.

Reading the stories, watching the videos, looking at the photos of kids, wives, & their masculine leader smiling and living life on an entirely different level was both incredibly humbling as well as relentlessly motivating.

Throughout the day my phone would go off with notifications and I’d see another man owning his failure and using it as fuel when he used to view it as an anchor, kids saying they’ve never been happier, husbands and wives rekindling that flame of passion and desire; this month was more than I ever thought it could be.

I had my own struggles, specifically trying to find the hours required to run this while managing a business trip, graduate school, leading my own family, and dealing with what we all deal with – Life.

As I struggled to maintain control of the campaign, I had other men rise up & support me, support each other, and keep the fire alive.

That is masculinity.

This is the tribe mindset we need to cultivate in ourselves, with our fellow man, and then something to pass along to our sons, nephews, & all future men.

Masculinity is like a fire and we are now the torchbearers. Future generations do not have a chance if we do not rise up and light their torches as well.

Society as a whole will collapse if we do not maintain and grow our population of masculine warriors who are ready to answer the call of doing what is right vs what is easy.

The Men of March will rise and by doing so they’ll save their masculine sons, their feminine wives + daughters, and western society itself.

I hope each one of you who has marched in the ranks with me experiences a lifetime full of authentic and genuine joy. Even our struggles are enjoyable as we are men and we find comfort in the discomfort.

We make our body savage, our mind sharp, and keep our soul free.

Your default is now that of a masculine man, lead your clan.

The Final Challenges

  1. 300 Push-Ups (Your final 300, during each rep think of your brothers & how they’re pushing through the pain as well. Our collective suffering is our fuel)
  2. Write down your goals for April & write down how you’re going to achieve them.
  3. Reflect on this past month and realize that you are now responsible for spreading this message through example. Your authentic nature will now allow others to be a little more genuine in their own lives; watch the ripple effect spread.

It’s now up to you to decide what you do with the fire which burns inside.

The Final Wrap Up


Every man must find his mission, mine is helping my brethren live authentic lives, entirely true to their biological nature.

Masculinity is who we are, not something we do and when we can align our natural masculine nature with our identity, we are able to harness the power towards living even harder and experiencing even more in this life.

That’s what it’s all about, experiencing the emotions, joy, pain, physical exertion, spiritual release, climbing to the greatest peaks and falling to the darkest depths only to do it over again; that’s life.

I hope to hear of future victories and I’m here to listen to failures & offer advice.

If you’ve made it this far, congratulations; You are a Man of March.

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31 thoughts on “Day #31: The Only Hope

  1. Struggling with
    You will not masturbate, edge, or touch your dick for pleasure during the entire month. You can have sex, but not with yourself.
    You will not watch porn, sexy gifs, look at provocative photos or anything of the sort as this will lead to you breaking rule one.

    and this one with rule one
    If you have a vice, remove it. You have to be honest with yourself; if you’re overweight and drinking to numb or are smoking pot and being unproductive, that shit has to go. This isn’t a ‘dry’ challenge, if alcohol or pot isn’t a problem good to go. If it’s more than that, leave it be for the month.

    Observing my behavior isn’t changing it.


  2. This month has been transformative.

    I went from being a mopey depressed dude whose wife recently said she was losing attraction to — to a smiling, engaged father who gets random blowjobs from his wife because, and I quote, “it looked like you needed a blowjob”. It’s insane. I am reborn.

    Thank you


  3. This made March 2017 one of the most memorable, challenging, triumphant, uncomfortable, sore and DOMINANT months of my adult life. We were wavelengthing the entire time… every morning and afternoon I’d be refreshing your site in anticipation of that day’s post. Many days at work, I’d be reading and get those magnificent masculine chills throughout my body as your words rattled my core. The Negative Visualization post (challenge) got me… I had to walk around outside to collect myself.
    Thanks from the depths of my soul, brother.


  4. This has been a epic month Hunter thank you. Your work has paid off, you’ve reached out and helped a lot of men start the transition to become MEN. It was nice to have a mentor to help along the way, they are becoming harder and harder to find. Hopefully as we continue to grow and tap into our masculine selfs we will be one of those hard to find mentors for others. Thank you brother, been a hell of a ride.


    • Thanks man, it has been an awesome month and I can’t wait to hear of how the ripple effect has spread to others in your life and the live’s of all those who participated in Men of March.


  5. This month has been a challenge, but we did it, I failed 2 days in a row with rule 1 and 2, but I said fuck I can’t let me failing twice rule the rest of the week. I told myself again that watching pixels and jerking off is pathetic and that its what sad men do.
    It is still a challenge but over time I know that I can get over the addiction. I just have to keep busy improving myself and not get bored. Bored leads to addictions.


  6. Thank you very much for all Men of March, I am from Argentina, and start the challenge from day 5.
    You’ve been a very good mentor.
    Thanks Omar


  7. Tomorrows my last day but its in the bag, thank you brother, you’ve shown me a side of myself I never seen b4. Im kinda disapointed its finished, like Justin said REAL mentors are hard to come by and few and far between. Thank you.


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  9. Hey man, I don’t know your email, and I refuse to get twitter/facebook/etc. but if you get this…sweet! I read the book of pook as well as “the power of now” by Eckhart Toll during menofmarch. Ill tell you, menofmarch was excellent man. It got me pushing myslef into things ive never done before. Even now that it is over. Shit man, im taking a second job to fund my life long dream…become an airshow pilot. The reading and pushups continue. No rest, comforting discomfort


  10. Nofap will teach you a lot about yourself – the most important thing you will learn: That you can not think your sex drive away or use that to build something that requires focus.

    Nofap is great when you are having a strength goal, want to beat someone up. Not recommend it for pickup as your thirst will ruin everything – MGTOW is way superior.

    Nofap will take over your mind, the harder you try to resist the worse it will get. I work 12hours per day with laser focus. When I was doing nofap (I had one of the largest journals there) I could not focus. And everyone had that problem.

    Nofap will uncover problems you had back in your mind because you can not escape with porn anymore.

    I genuinely recommend abstaining for 30 days to learn more about yourself but then stop with it. I also do not recommend porn (what you view will get worse and worse + erectile dysfunction).

    If you are however building something of importance or trying to overcome your depression then I highly recommend to not do nofap.

    You will not be able to focus on what is important, you will be thirsty, you will have too much energy directed to the wrong places.

    If you think you can tame the beast that is your sex-drive then you are dead wrong.

    Also, the Nofap community is full of beta social justice warriors that pedestal women.

    Here is my article about nofap it’s a year old:

    Glad to see your blog succeed, you deserve it!

    Best regards,
    Philip Braselmann


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