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Don’t Be A Predictable (Boring) Man

“You’re so predictable.” This phrase is a death sentence in marriage. A man who is living life according to his terms is a man whose wife cannot predict his every action. She may be able to predict that he will take the path of an authentic individual, overcoming obstacles rather than skirting them but she does not feel […]

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Dads & Daughters

I am a fortunate man in the sense that I have both a masculine son and a feminine daughter. After I wrote Fathers and Sons, where I discussed how, “Your son is going to follow the example you set, not the advice you provide.” I decided to write a piece dealing with how to raise a daughter […]

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Fathers Raising Sons

I left active duty after a successful 8 year career not because I didn’t like the military, but rather because I knew I’d rather be a quality and present father than a stellar sailor. Collecting a pension at 39 sounded like a solid plan and originally it was. But after my son was born and then […]

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Remove the TV

The television in your home is a portal for outside thoughts and influences to enter your inner “safe space“. I want to push back against the “norm” of having the TV be the leading source of information and entertainment in you and your family’s life. The world can be a dark place; there’s no reason […]

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The Complexity of Marriage is Simple

When you fail to lead, your girl is caught in purgatory; stay knowing your potential or leave for a chance at better Marriage is like most things in the world, it’s supposed to be simple yet it is very complicated. Fixing a marriage seems very difficult, yet it’s quite simple. The problem with these preconceived […]

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2015 Book List

‘Total Recall’ – Arnold ‘The Way of the Superior Man’ – David Deida ‘Game of Thrones’ – George R. R. Martin ‘A Clash of Kings’ – George R. R. Martin ‘Matterhorn’ – Karl Marlantes ‘Liberal Democracy’ – Unk ‘The Power of Now’ Eckhart Tolle ‘Guide to the Good Life’ – William Irvine ‘Gates of Fire’ […]

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