Dealing with Toxic Family
When we think of “family” there’s likely some positive preconceived notion of mom, dad, and kid doing something together. Unfortunately, there’s a large population of individuals who shudder when they hear the word as it triggers a negative emotional response. Not all families get along and for those in that situation, lets talk about how […]
Continue reading...Social Distancing with a Family
We’re living in a time where big government is telling us we need to stay away from one another. The byproduct of this separation from friends and extended family is that it has the potential to make your family closer than ever. We have an opportunity during these stressful times to find peace and connection […]
Continue reading...Vetting Women For Marriage
Choosing the right woman to bear your children is the single greatest decision you will make as a man. Yet, most men receive nothing more than a, “if you knock her up you marry her.” when it comes to which woman to pro-create with and at that point, the damage has already been done. It’s […]
Continue reading...That Time I Almost Lost My Wife & Son…
I’ve shared stories here and there about the times my wife has kicked some ass for our family (Example: Queen & Warrior); I’ve never shared the true nature of how hard this woman is or how close I came to losing her and my son which was our entire family at the time. It’s 2009 and […]
Continue reading...11 Lessons from 11 Years of Marriage
Last week I celebrated my 11 year wedding anniversary, which alone is nothing special as there are plenty of marriages out there that have double the years put in, yet they have half of the laughs, joy, and genuine happiness between them as my wife and I do. The difference between what I’m putting out there […]
Continue reading...Divorce Is Always An Option
Before the religious crowd grabs their pitch forks, I’m not advocating for divorce. I know what divorce does to families; some of the stories I’ve heard from men who’ve been through the grinder of Divorce Corp/Family Law have left me sick to my & blood boiling. The intent of my message is that while I do […]
Continue reading...A Family Divided
On Tuesday, November 3, 2020, the United States will commence the 59th quadrennial presidential election. The build up to this event is going to begin well before then which has me wondering, for the Trump supporting married/LTR men like myself, what are you going to do when your wife/girlfriend says to you, “We’re voting for […]
Continue reading...The Disappointment of Improvement
There is an aspect to the development of self which is incredibly frustrating. It’s the greatest downside to improvement there is, yet nobody talks about it. When you are taking charge of your life, seeing new gains in the gym, finding new veins on your body, and mentally feeling more joy and clarity than ever […]
Continue reading...Get Over It
Women do not want to hear men tell them that a level of historical sexual culpability must be maintained. That they do not want to hear this does not make it any less mandatory that you deliver the message through removal of time, energy, and attention. Society will tell you to be thankful to any […]
Continue reading...Marriage, A Game of Frames
Frame > Everything Else I was introduced to the concept of “frame” early in my discovery of The Red Pill subreddit. I remember reading about the concept and thinking, “well duh, if you think like everyone else, you’ll be operating at the same standard as everyone else and who wants to be average?“ I have […]
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