Don’t Forget to Enjoy the Ride

We have touched on the topic of having fun and the importance of remaining your own man time and again, yet sometimes I feel the message is lost.

So it is important that as writers, bloggers, vloggers, and Fraternity Brothers that we refresh this message and remind guys that they need to be enjoying the journey as much as they’re enjoying the destination.

Day in and day out to the gym, writing millions of words, observing your wife, improving your standard and watching those around you raise their own; all of this is fucking awesome. I wrote about Reasons to be Thankful Thanksgiving(2015) and I am reminding you now, find comfort in the discomfort of living life as a masculine male in a weak society that has stacked the cards against you.

For those who are married and choosing to get married, embrace the challenge that is marriage in today’s day and age. Gender traitor white knights and feminists want to push the feminine imperative and foster open hypergamy, good. All you need to do is continue to walk to the beat of your own drum and show them that no matter their efforts, they cannot overcome your masculine nature as that is not something you do, it’s who you are and until your heart stops beating, you will not bend the knee.

On this blog, Twitter, The Red Pill subreddit, as well as those inside The Fraternity of Excellence there are a lot of newly unplugged men who are asking for advice and guidance concerning their marriage within the context of the “Red Lens“.  There is quite a bit of doom, gloom, resentment, and frustration in the beginning; so much so that it has been given the title of ‘The Anger Phase‘.

This is your reminder that while your perceived reality crumbles and you recognize the world for what it truly is, you should still be having the time of your life.

Whether you’re new to the ‘sphere/Red Pill or a seasoned Vet who has had a solid ‘RP’ marriage for years, don’t become complacent or forget how awesome it is to be a man in a sea of weak dudes. The bar has never been lower which means the ability to be on top has never been easier.

Yes, it is depressing when you see other guys wasting the precious time we have on this planet making a woman their entire purpose in life. But, they will either unplug when they are ready or they will die thinking that being Mr. Nice Guy is a proper and honorable path thus they’ll continue to pursue the ill-fated mission of self-sacrificing to “happiness”.

For your own sanity, make the time to appreciate that you have broken the mold society has been forcing you into and that you are going to raise the bar of the modern day male. It is a more difficult life, but you need to keep in mind there is no shortcut to any place worth going.

With all of that said, enjoy the ride.

  • Enjoy the shit tests as they are entertaining and truly amusing when you realize your wife just wants to talk and you aren’t responsible for answering or solving everything she brings up.
  • Enjoy the pain from lifting. The discomfort from weightlifting provides a humbling yet spiritual experience. Knowing the limits of your body, then training to raise those limits is some powerful shit. I bought a bench, barbell, squat stand, and bumper plates. I can now lift in my garage whenever I want so there is no excuse for missed workout.
  • Laugh at yourself, laugh at your wife, laugh at your kids, and laugh at the absurdity of what goes on around you. People can’t fathom that I don’t let my kids watch TV or snack whenever and that I will run around outside with them in the rain or do mud crawls or hop around on their scooters. I don’t give a fuck I keep doing me and my kids are better off because of it. It is sad, but fathers have become so sedentary and lethargic that they can’t keep up with their kids and are too tired to laugh anymore. Not me and hopefully not you, enjoy playing around with them and reminding them that their old man can hang. I’d much rather whoop my son’s ass at connect four then have us all plugged into the TV watching Spongebob.
  • Make fun of your wife, ruffle her feathers. Don’t be a dickhead, but bring the spark of humor into your relationship. A while ago I replaced my wife’s incense with a sparkler when she wasn’t paying attention. It looked like the fourth of July for a few minutes, it was awesome. Stupid stuff like that, stop taking yourself so serious. She is just a girl you like on the playground, pull her hair, tease her, have fun and laugh together.

Gentlemen, we have an opportunity to live life as men and keep our marriage until we are too old to remember we are even married (and at that point who cares)? Enjoy it while it lasts, have fun and strive to reach a point of optimal existence, full immersion in each moment.

Enjoy each and every moment you have on this earth, life is nothing more than a bunch of experiences.

Stay strong, make it count, and don’t forget to smile.

Acta Non Verba,

Hunter

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  • Javier Robb says:

    “Laugh at yourself, laugh at your wife, laugh at your kids, and laugh at the absurdity of what goes on around you. ”
    This is they key, more than anything else you say in the article

  • Javier Robb says:

    “Make fun of your wife, ruffle her feathers. Don’t be a dickhead, but bring the spark of humor into your relationship. A while ago I replaced my wife’s incense with a sparkler when she wasn’t looking. It looked like the fourth of July for a few minutes, it was fucking awesome. Stupid shit like that, stop taking yourself so serious. She is just a girl you like on the playground, pull her hair, and tease her.”

    Ruthless, but true, what works, works

  • Javier Robb says:

    Oh I forgot to smile
    🙂

  • I enjoyed reading the bullet points at the end. Men need to understand that shit-tests are provocations made to test their mettle. Here is a shit-test example + answer: “Hey Ali what’s up” (Because I have grown a beard) Answer: ALLAHU AKBAR AMK. You counter every shit-test with this method: agree+amplify. In the example, I gave you, I agreed to his statement with Allahu akbar(that I am a Turk) and amplified it into absurdity with the Allahu akbar. They all have respect for me and they all still shit-test me. It would be sad if they stopped because that would mean that they think that I am a weak sensitive man which they don’t want to hurt. I don’t give a shit what other people think of me. But I really do not like the special treatment. When you win every shit-test women will be highly attracted to you and men will respect you (with continued shit-tests instead of sensitive faggot talk). I was a sensitive man before I learned what shit-tests are. I saw them as a challenge at first. Now I love them because It is an invitation to call them faggots and smile. You can easily counter it with women. “Hey, Phil that beard looks stupid” “My beard is a college dropout” look in their eyes, smile, and agree+amplify. Big smile guaranteed + vagina tingles. My conclusion is that shit-tests are a chance to show people that you are a masculine sexual being. And you win them easily when you agree+amplify their provocations.

    Hope that helped!
    Also, there is no better place to get RedPill knowledge about Marriage than here.
    Married RedPill Man with children. Get your daily dose of Redpill Marriage!

    Best Regards
    Philip Braselmann

  • ValorForFreedom says:

    I enjoyed reading the bullet points at the end. Men need to understand that shit-tests are provocations made to test their mettle. Here is a shit-test example + answer: “Hey Ali what’s up” (Because I have grown a beard) Answer: ALLAHU AKBAR AMK. You counter every shit-test with this method: agree+amplify. In the example, I gave you, I agreed to his statement with Allahu akbar(that I am a Turk) and amplified it into absurdity with the Allahu akbar. They all have respect for me and they all still shit-test me. It would be sad if they stopped because that would mean that they think that I am a weak sensitive man which they don’t want to hurt. I don’t give a shit what other people think of me. But I really do not like the special treatment. When you win every shit-test women will be highly attracted to you and men will respect you (with continued shit-tests instead of sensitive faggot talk). I was a sensitive man before I learned what shit-tests are. I saw them as a challenge at first. Now I love them because It is an invitation to call them faggots and smile. You can easily counter it with women. “Hey, Phil that beard looks stupid” “My beard is a college dropout” look in their eyes, smile, and agree+amplify. Big smile guaranteed + vagina tingles. My conclusion is that shit-tests are a chance to show people that you are a masculine sexual being. And you win them easily when you agree+amplify their provocations.

    Hope that helped!
    Also, there is no better place to get RedPill knowledge about Marriage than here.
    Married RedPill Man with children. Get your daily dose of Redpill Marriage!

    Best Regards
    Philip Braselmann

  • […] Some guys try this and they come across as these immature annoying fucks; work on your tact and develop a suave nature about your pranks. Also, include sexual innuendo if you can – keep it light as you should be enjoying this (Don’t forget to enjoy the ride) […]

  • Jim Johnson says:

    A glass of cold water dumped over the shower curtain with your wife in there is a good idea.

  • […] When men are following the Feminine Imperative, it forces them out of their natural operating mode, one which allows them to freely express their youthfulness and boyish charm. The “brow beaten man” has no joy, he has forgotten how to enjoy the ride of life. […]

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