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Given up on overcoming your addictions and the demons of your past? Resigned yourself to being a slave to them because you “can’t change”?
I’m familiar with all that despondent and hopeless horsesh*t because I’ve been there myself. You might not believe it now, but you can get past all that and leave it in the dust. Are you ready to break free?
Tired of feeling ignored and disrespected by your family and others? It’s hard for them to respect you and see your worth when you don’t respect yourself, behave in a respectable way or see your own self-worth.
Once you start seeing your worth and behaving in a way you can respect, things change. People start respecting you, seeking your guidance and following your leadership. Wouldn’t that be nice?
You want your children to embrace hard things in academics, work and athletics when those hard things could lead to growth and a better life. But, do you have that virtue yourself? Maybe you’ve had it in the past, but have you exercised it recently? Or, have you been sliding down the path of least resistance, letting your workouts, spiritual endeavors, and work ethic slip?
In this program, you will develop or rekindle the virtues of grit, resilience and pushing through hard things – virtues that will skyrocket your success in life, and the success of the people you inspire (like your children).
Don’t have a brotherhood of growth-minded guys to associate with, support and be supported by? If you’re done going it alone, there are dozens of men just like you who need support and are willing to support you.
Come and experience the powerful bonds that are forged when men face difficult challenges together. These bonds are not easily broken. Many of these friendships will last a lifetime.
Sometimes you’re so far down and in so deep, you don’t think anything can pull you out. What if there was a program that could reach into your soul, uncover your authentic best, help you throw off the chains holding you down and positively alter the trajectory of your life?
Powerful experiences that alter the trajectory of your life are called Turning Points. One is being offered to you right now. Will you receive it?
A few things about me…
Stuck in a rut you feel like you can’t get out of?
Experiencing a dumpster fire in health, wealth or relationships?
Trying to figure out who you are after a divorce or major life change?
Chained down by addictions and vices?
Having a hard time respecting the man in the mirror?
Tired of going it alone?
We’ve all had hard times where we were spinning our wheels, or crashing through life toward catastrophe or at least way undershooting our potential.
31 Days to Masculinity offers you a critical turning point where you can start turning those circumstances around.
Once you start facing and overcoming some addictions and demons, boosting your self-respect and self-worth, altering your identity to embrace hard things, and doing it all with a band of brothers that have your back, everything starts to change.
Getting those things in place made a huge difference for me, as you can see in the achievements above.
I list them so you know that even though I’ve dealt with paternal abandonment, maternal suicide, alcohol addiction and lot of other crap, there is hope.
I will help you. Other men will help you.
I’ve helped guys who were down and out, even suicidal to achieve amazing transformations and start winning in life.
Sign up below and you’ll get access to the 31 Days to Masculinity challenges and the private Slack group filled with other men on the path to excellence.
Use the next 31 days to complete the exercises outlined in the course and report your challenges and wins to the other men in the group. Bond with a group of men who are also pursuing excellence.
What will you do as a man of greater vision, confidence, freedom from addiction, increased self-respect and a powerful brotherhood backing you up? There’s only one way to find out.
Men of March
Interact with a brotherhood of men who are dedicated to your success. Air your thoughts and issues. Help and be helped. Forge bonds that will last a lifetime.
31 daily challenges to help you clean up the past, start respecting yourself, overcome addictions, embrace hard things, and chart a new course toward becoming the man you were meant to become.
Meet with other men in the group face to face. Bring the online world a little closer to reality.
Men of March
Interact with a brotherhood of men who are dedicated to your success. Air your thoughts and issues. Help and be helped. Forge bonds that will last a lifetime.
31 daily challenges to help you clean up the past, start respecting yourself, overcome addictions, embrace hard things, and chart a new course toward becoming the man you were meant to become.
Meet with other men in the group face to face. Bring the online world a little closer to reality.
Bookend your experience with 1 hour pre and post campaign Zoom calls with me. This will help set you up for success before the campaign starts and keep your growth going after the campaign ends.
At $50/hr, this is probably the best deal in one-on-one, professional men’s self-improvement coaching in the universe. My regular coaching rate is $250/hr. Can you feel that I want you to succeed, brother?
Men of March
Interact with a brotherhood of men who are dedicated to your success. Air your thoughts and issues. Help and be helped. Forge bonds that will last a lifetime.
31 daily challenges to help you clean up the past, start respecting yourself, overcome addictions, embrace hard things, and chart a new course toward becoming the man you were meant to become.
Meet with other men in the group face to face. Bring the online world a little closer to reality.
Bookend your experience with 1 hour pre and post campaign Zoom calls with me. This will help set you up for success before the campaign starts and keep your growth going after the campaign ends.
At $50/hr, this is probably the best deal in one-on-one, professional men’s self-improvement coaching in the universe. My regular coaching rate is $250/hr. Can you feel that I want you to succeed, brother?
This is for the guy who knows he’s going to need extra accountability, privacy and/or support to get the most out of the program.
With this option, you will Not be let off the hook, you Will progress, and you will get your questions, frustrations and concerns addressed immediately.
Includes unlimited direct text messages with me, along with periodic phone calls.
31 Days to Masculinity (31 DTM) is a set of 31 daily challenges to help you get unstuck, overcome your issues and become the man you were meant to become.
31 DTM can be done alone or in a group. A few times per year, I run a 31 DTM campaign for men who want to complete the 31 daily challenges as a group, with my guidance.
When I run one of those in March, I call it Men of March.
No, 31 DTM is a 31-day program designed to help you audit and overhaul your life. It’s about getting you to live an authentic life once again, removing the BS that society, bad experiences and bad habits have instilled in you.
Yes, there are pushups (or other physical activities of your choice), but these are more to help you develop the muscles of discipline and commitment, rather than physical muscles.
It’s for all men 18+.
Share your experience with the challenge of the day and what you need help with so we know what you’re going through. This is a “PC Free” space, there are no taboo subjects. If you want input, recognize that we can’t help those who suffer in silence.
All men must commit to total privacy. If you can’t commit to 100% privacy, DO NOT SIGN UP. If you have more extreme privacy needs, there is a purchase option that gets you direct text access with me for your daily journal entries.
The expectation is you give yourself the gift of connection, 31 DTM is not for anon gents hiding, there’s nothing to hide, as everyone else there is looking to do the same as you, connect and fix themselves in the process.
The daily challenges were created with men with busy family and business lives in mind. Some (not all) challenges require up to an hour to complete, depending on the man, and are often broken into small chunks that can be completed throughout the day.
The time you spend reporting may take as little as a few minutes per day. How much time you spend reading and offering helpful thoughts to other men is up to you.
There will be two Zoom calls each week to help you get to know and bond with other men face to face. These are held Mon nights from 8-9pm EST, and Sat mornings from 8-9am EST. You will be expected to attend these if at all possible.
Physical fitness
Addiction
Childhood baggage
Environment cleanup
Relationship assessment
Auditing your performance up to this point
Identifying time and dime vampires
Your performance under each of the titles you hold (Husband, brother, son, man, father, friends, etc.)
It’s up to you how much of a deep dive you do on any particular issue. What we’re doing here is at least eradicating the denial that’s part of what’s keeping you stuck, giving you a clearer picture of what needs to be addressed when you’re ready.
Body/air squats are acceptable substitutes, planks are acceptable substitutes, any physical challenge that you can repeat daily without injuring yourself is acceptable. The goal is to push yourself and remain committed, not injure yourself out of ego.
This program is not designed to collapse marriages. Expect to get a lot of clarity though.
Pick yourself up and keep going until the end. You can revisit missed challenges in the future.
You will have access to me via Slack (and over text if you purchase that option) every day. So, if you keep slipping, expect to be challenged as this is an accountability group filled with men who want to help you help yourself and break free from the complacent “I don’t care, I’m not really invested in anything” attitude.
Access to Slack on a computer or phone to report, support and get support from the group. Slack is free. A link to join the group will be provided.
Physical paper or password protected digital journal for you to log your thoughts and review at the end of the program. I recommend keeping your physical journals secured so you feel more free to write in them.
No, you will receive a PDF copy of the book when you join.
If someone else wants to join the Slack community and be a part of the Zooms, they will need to pay to get access. If they just want to follow along with you offline, feel free to share the 31 DTM PDF with them so they can complete the challenges along with you.
It’s designed to begin on a Wednesday so the biggest challenges can land on weekends, so men with very tight weekday schedules can still complete all the challenges.
This registration page will go offline at 9pm EST on March 2nd. Get in before then so you’re not waiting around for months until I run this again.
Hopefully not many, brother! Join the brotherhood now, and let’s get you unstuck and moving forward.