Sex & Marriage

Replace ‘Love‘ with ‘Sex‘ and you’ve got a more accurate picture of what is needed for a healthy marriage. One of the most important questions that is asked when assessing a man’s marriage is: what is the quality and frequency of sex you are having with your wife. Is it nightly? Is she laying there like a dead […]

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Ending the line of Chads

There is a line in The Prince by Niccolo Machiavelli that states (my own translation): “Once a man has conquered a territory he must do two things if he wants to keep that territory. (1) He must destroy the line of men who claimed the territory before him and (2) he must not disturb the […]

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Creating Your Slut

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Get Over Your Relationship PTSD

Sometimes you carry the memories of your previous “beta” self and it prevents you from allowing your current self to ever have a chance to develop that sense of authentic living. There are a great deal of posts on The Manosphere by both married & single men that share this running theme of that’s how it […]

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Don’t Be A Predictable (Boring) Man

“You’re so predictable.” This phrase is a death sentence in marriage. A man who is living life according to his terms is a man whose wife cannot predict his every action. She may be able to predict that he will take the path of an authentic individual, overcoming obstacles rather than skirting them but she does not feel […]

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Dads & Daughters

I am a fortunate man in the sense that I have both a masculine son and a feminine daughter. After I wrote Fathers and Sons, where I discussed how, “Your son is going to follow the example you set, not the advice you provide.” I decided to write a piece dealing with how to raise a daughter […]

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Fathers Raising Sons

I left active duty after a successful 8 year career not because I didn’t like the military, but rather because I knew I’d rather be a quality and present father than a stellar sailor. Collecting a pension at 39 sounded like a solid plan and originally it was. But after my son was born and then […]

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