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Dealing with Toxic Family

When we think of â€œfamilyâ€ there’s likely some positive preconceived notion of mom, dad, and kid doing something together. Unfortunately, there’s a large population of individuals who shudder when they hear the word as it triggers a negative emotional response. Not all families get along and for those in that situation, lets talk about how […]

Divorce Is Always An Option

Before the religious crowd grabs their pitch forks, I’m not advocating for divorce. I know what divorce does to families; some of the stories I’ve heard from men who’ve been through the grinder of Divorce Corp/Family Law have left me sick to my & blood boiling. The intent of my message is that while I do […]

A Family Divided

On Tuesday, November 3, 2020, the United States will commence the 59th quadrennial presidential election. The build up to this event is going to begin well before then which has me wondering, for the Trump supporting married/LTR men like myself, what are you going to do when your wife/girlfriend says to you, “We’re voting for […]

Getting Over Your Relationship PTSD Pt. II: Give Love One More Chance

In my first post on Getting Over Your Relationship PTSDÂ I brought up the point that how things used to be do not dictate how things will be. Many men have given the power over their inner self entirely to the women of their lives. They let their ex-relationships dictate their future relationships, trying to do […]

Smiling in the Rubble

There’s something innately manly about being able to smile while the entire world is telling you it’s time to be stressed out. It is a mindset which will serve you well as a man; there are plenty of benefits to being the one who can keep his wits and his humor about him when times […]

Voice or Echo?

Are you a creator or a reflector? Original or Clone? Are you doing things your way or are you trying to be someone else? These are difficult questions to answer, especially if you havenâ€™t killed your ego. You may think, â€œIâ€™m marching to the beat of my own drum, owning my shit, and I am […]

The Complexity of Marriage is Simple

When you fail to lead, your girl is caught in purgatory; stay knowing your potential or leave for a chance at better Marriage is like most things in the world, itâ€™s supposed to be simple yet it is very complicated. Fixing a marriage seems very difficult, yet it’s quite simple. The problem with these preconceived […]

Action, Not Vows is What Your Marriage Needs

I had a discussion with a man who said, â€œWhen she pledges till death do us part, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer in front of her’s and your parents and grandparents who all fulfilled that vow to the end, it is reasonable to expect it to be true.â€ This stuck with […]