Let's get this clear right off the bat, masturbation is not some evil act which is to be demonized. That is the first stance taken against my claim that porn is toxic for the development of masculinity and that is not what I'm saying. What I am saying is that the pixels you are watching, the ones that you … Continue reading Porn is Toxic to the Development of Masculinity
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Man, The Mature Child
There is an adage that women are 'The Most Responsible Teenager In The House' and if you follow that link to the No-Maam blog you can find all of the research and evidence supporting that general truth. Modern day men find themselves in a hell of a predicament. They're told to treat women as their absolute … Continue reading Man, The Mature Child
31 Days to Masculinity March 2018
Gentlemen, We're launching the next installment of 31 Days to Masculinity and celebrating the one year anniversary of #MenofMarch on March 1st 2018. With each new installment the program has improved and grown. The last campaign was #DecemberofDiscipline and it had 220+ men working together throughout December to reclaim their authentic nature and enter 2018 … Continue reading 31 Days to Masculinity March 2018
First Guest Post on The Family Alpha: A Letter To The Loser (Written By Charlie)
A Letter to The "Loser" NOTE TO READER: This is the first guest post on The Family Alpha, and it was written by a man whom I greatly respect and take pride in hosting on my site. You would do well to heed the advice which follows below. As you begin reading this you're probably … Continue reading First Guest Post on The Family Alpha: A Letter To The Loser (Written By Charlie)
Founding Fathers
When you get a group of motivated men together, there is nothing they cannot do. This is exactly what Craig and I are hoping for with this blog and it is the driving force behind The Fraternity of Excellence. Before getting to the Fraternity, I want to take a literal approach to the title of … Continue reading Founding Fathers
Finish Lines Are A Time For Reflection
There’s something to be said about the emotion associated with crossing the finish line. It’s a time where you’ve accomplished a goal, you’re elated to of achieved this objective; but, this is only one of many goals and it isn’t the “ultimate goal”. In the game of life, it is improvement and new experiences to … Continue reading Finish Lines Are A Time For Reflection
The Trident of Masculinity
Authentic masculine expression comes from the harmonization of the three different 'selves' which exist inside each man. These three aspects which comprise every man are: Physical Self Mental Self Spiritual Self Like any tripod these legs are all independent of one another yet are entirely dependent on the supporting strength the other two provide. This … Continue reading The Trident of Masculinity
Face Your Fear of Rejection
For some, the scariest possibility in the world is to be alone. I was watching a Joe Rogan stand up special and he said something which really impacted me. He said, "Humans are such social creatures that the worst thing you can do to them is put them in solitary confinement. A person in prison, … Continue reading Face Your Fear of Rejection
Mentouring – A 21 Convention Review
First I have to give credit where credit is due, my wife came up with the term mentouring. While I wouldn't say that the speakers themselves are "touring" to provide their speeches, the event itself is literally touring the globe and speakers are coming from across the nation. The 21 Convention is an international convention … Continue reading Mentouring – A 21 Convention Review
Stop trying to be someone else.
"Out of every one hundred men, ten shouldn't even be there, eighty are just targets, nine are the real fighters, and we are lucky to have them, for they make the battle. Ah, but the one, one is a warrior, and he will bring the others back." –Heraclitus Everyone thinks they're the man who will … Continue reading Stop trying to be someone else.